I figured out how the scumbags win and nice guys lose. Propaganda. Psychological operations. They persuade vulnerable women to see negative traits as positive, and positive traits as negative. They invert the moral pyramid in her in mind, where she not only believes nice guys are bad but that her scumbag keeps her safe.
In a Manichean battle over the heart and mind of a good woman and dear friend of mine, how do I beat him to win her love?
She wants to marry this scum and heâ€™s banging the wife of the couple theyâ€™re living with/off of. They have an â€śopenâ€ť relationship.