So Iâ€™m 21, and my girlfriend is 3 years older than me. Lately, sheâ€™s been texting me less and less. Now to the point, where I havenâ€™t heard from her in a week. We only communicate through texting when weâ€™re not together. Weâ€™re also coworkers, so I only been seeing her at work, but I still havenâ€™t said anything to her about it because I think that if I let go of her, she could understand that I have always been there for her. Also, we keep our relationship a secret at work too, so itâ€™s not like we could act like our normal selves. I also requested to work different shifts from now on, so that way we wouldnâ€™t work together because I just canâ€™t pretend that everything is fine when itâ€™s not when I see her. Itâ€™s just hard to face her now. Iâ€™m pretty much going along with it, but at this point, I donâ€™t know if weâ€™re even a couple anymore because of the way sheâ€™s been ignoring me? Iâ€™m still here for her, but only if she needs me. Iâ€™m just very saddened because I donâ€™t want to lose her.