My mother, grandmother (on both sides), and my aunts all married people were around 5 or so years older then themselves. And it seems I am going to end up keeping the pattern up as well... (All the marriages in my family have been successful, keep in mind.) Anyway, I have noticed that I find guys who are around 5 or more years older than me far more attractive than guys my age or slightly younger. I mean, I wouldn t pair up with a guy twice my age or something, I just find that guys who are somewhat older than me more attractive. Is that a normal way to feel?